Tranquility of the Trivia
Is there even such a thing called tranquility from the trivial? Is there even such a thing called “true potential”? Am I doing the things that brings me closer to the self that I imagined or lack thereof? Am I really in the phase of becoming to that “image”? Or do I not really think about it at all? Is Ignorance really bliss? Is tranquility from the trivia is best? To delve myself in the mundane tasks of everyday. Will there be anything that I regret not doing. Am I scared of dying or Am I scared of the thought of a life not well lived? I do believe trivia does grant some sense of tranquility. I do think it manifested in a lot of forms. I do believe it helps us in engage of some sense of momentary detachment of fear of life, but I am still in argue with my ego of what do I fear of life and why do people fear the end of life. I believe everyone believes in death, it is such a natural things in life, it is inevitable and it is bound to come. What I believe what people fear the most is the fear of not truly living. To be intoxicated from the trivia. To distract ourselves and dome ourself in the world of tranquility that lies in the repetition trivial tasks.
Speaking of the terms of self actualization and self reliance I do believe every human need some kind of meaning or they will be in crisis. The real thought that I was given by my unconscious is to ask, whether everyone will eventually reach self-actualization and why does it seem to be a need to it? Why isn’t belongingness and love needs enough? Why does the hierarchy of needs exist in the first place and why is it so interesting? Why does when one is missing a part of us seem truly meesing or we began a meaningful quest to search for one?
I am writing tranquility of the trivia because It is true for me, it exists and I experience it. If the trivia or the mundane tasks of life is detached I will be left for a cry for one. Tranquility of the trivia is what sort of gives us automation, doing something that does not to be asked because it is obvious what needs doing. I never feel a need to ask of the obvious. The curtain of tranquility began to fade only when I am daydreaming. When I communicate with my inner self and contemplate and ask if everything is really okay? What will happen if I stopped doing the trivia? Will something else crumbles?
I think the whole tranquility of the trivia is something human and what give a structure to human society, where we are taught by our elders how ‘life should be lived’ while at the same time we stare back at them and hollow eyes that they are the exactly same as us, not knowing how life should be lived, because it is not something to be told of, it is something to be explored, it is unique for every each of us, and it is not something that should be a template of. But at the end our elders only wants what they think it is the best for us, I think to some extent every household has experiences this, it is inevitable to not give the young some sense of belonging in a place or state where they could fill and do the trivia and has tranquility, but we rarely ask whether our young is really satisfied?
Tranquility of the trivia is a bit controversial article because it basically raises a conversation about being uncomfortable in being comfortable and some sense of comfortability in uncomfortability, my whole thesis of this because the pursuit of self-actualization need a lot of effort that I have never found in the everydays of mundane tasks, only after recently that I have begun to daydream a lot often and ask whether what is that I really seek in the people I talk with, the activities that I choose to do. It gets hyperparanoia like but it is what I was ask, it is the heart of the matter. It is the friends and the quality of time that I will sob on some time in the future. Something that matters the world to me, something that I will never trade for another. Something that I believe is worth risking my life over, and defending that state has nothing tranquil about it. It is what I have always imagine over.
I think after dragging the curtain of the whole tranquility thing I have become more clear and straightforward with the people around me, with the people who I care and played a significantly important role in my life in the past, present, and looking forward to the future. I don’t know what type of people that come up in your mind but I think to some extent of familiarity I think it should be family, especially if you have a child that you are taking care of, suddenly the pursuit of self actualization become furiously fun, it is becoming more and more challenging, you want to see something worth of significance fruition happen, you fight for it regardless of the floors of glass that you need to take, you want the best and you run for the best, there isn’t any obstacle large enough for a man who is determined, there is no such thing as tranquility in the pursuif of self-actualization, there is never such thing as a dome of tranquility from everydays mundane task as everything has a meaning to it.
This article is written in 16th May